Candour not Diplomacy.

Candour means the quality of saying what you think openly and honestly.

Diplomacy is a skill in dealing with people in difficult situations without upsetting or offending them.

I am not against anyone of them but I feel being candid is better than being diplomatic. When you are candid, you do things frankly without sugarcoating your words but when you are diplomatic, you tend to tiptoe around the truth more often. You use your tact while talking, your heart does the processing instead of your mind. Although, I do not like tactless people but in applying tactics, you should be candid.

You should be of nonconformity than of sensitivity. You should be frank because when you tiptoe around the truth, you tend to tell lies too.

Before you approach any issue, you should realise that your diplomacy should be juxtaposed with your frankness so you wouldn’t end up hurting anyone and you wouldn’t tell lies.

Oladewa Laura.

Don’t end it.

Your life isn’t a game, DON’T END IT.

There is absolutely no reason for you to think about suicide

You don’t have to change a thing about yourself

People need to change their heart.

You don’t need people to acknowledge how wonderful you are before you do it yourself.

Nobody can define who you are

Your reputation doesn’t matter

Your personality is what matters.

If people misinterpret your personality, it’s their problem, not yours.

Your life isn’t a game, DON’T END IT.

Recommended song: Scars to your beautiful by Alessia Cara.

Wear your crown properly.

Your Heavenly Father is the King of kings. You have every right to a crown of your own. Whether invisible or not, the crown of a king or queen must not fall down. Make sure your crown doesn’t. You deserve everything a queen or king deserves. Don’t settle for less. This is just a reminder because I know you will never forget that you are a king or a queen.